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Mother’s Day Traditions Around the World

By Monterey Bay Staff | May 8, 2020

In the United States the second Sunday in May is all about Mom. With breakfast in bed, handmade gifts, and a little time for special pampering, Mother’s Day is the day we celebrate mothers in the US. While many countries join us in the May celebration, there are also more traditional ways of acknowledging mothers around the world.

The American version of Mother’s Day was created by Anna Jarvis in 1908 and became an official holiday in 1914. Oddly enough, Jarvis would later denounce the holiday’s commercialization and worked in her later years to have it removed from the calendar.

Other countries and cultures have their own unique celebrations to honor mothers. To add a special twist to this year’s celebration, see if you can adapt one of these international celebrations to your family’s Mother’s Day.

India: 10-Day Festival

While India does celebrate a westernized version of Mother’s Day on the second Sunday in May, Hindus traditionally celebrate the goddess Durga Puka, or Divine Mother, in October. Families spend weeks getting ready for the festival by preparing food, decorating their homes, and buying and making gifts. The celebration is both a religious ceremony and a time for family reunions and gatherings.

Japan: The Right Flowers

Following World War II, the tradition of using carnations to symbolize motherhood began. Children gave their mothers red carnations, and those who had lost their mother displayed a white carnation. The tradition has evolved to giving white carnations to all mothers. Today, mothers are taken out to eat and celebrated with gifts, such as kimonos, kokeshi dolls, and cards.

Ethiopia:  Antrosht

On the second Sunday in May, The Antrosht Festival is dedicated to mothers. The 3-day celebration calls for the whole family to gather and enjoy traditional Ethiopian meals. Daughters traditionally provide the vegetables and cheese while the boys in the family provide the meat. The meal includes hash–a combination of lamb or bull, vegetables, butter, and spices and Ethiopian punch–a mixture of lemon, orange, grape, and pineapple juice, and Rosebery syrup. After the feast, families gather to sing, dance, and play music.

Mexico, Guatemala, and El Salvador: Sweet Serenade

Dia de Las Madres is always held on May 10 and is filled with flowers, large family gatherings, and community celebrations. Many businesses close, and Mariachi music and singing fill the cities and rural towns. The tradition has been carried to the US, where many Mexican-American families celebrate by hiring Mariachi bands to serenade the family matriarch.

France: Medals for Mom

In 1806, Napoleon established a special day dedicated to the mothers of large families. This celebration was revived after World War I when it was adjusted to honor the widows who lost their husbands during the war. In 1941, the government chose the last Sunday of May as the official Mother’s Day date.

In every French municipality, the mayor can honor mothers of large families by giving them a special medal called “Médaille de la Famille” (Family Medal). Mothers can receive a gold medal if they have more than eight children, a silver medal if they have six or seven children, and a bronze medal if they have four or five children.

Most French families now celebrate more simply by giving gifts of flowers, perfume, and jewelry.

This year, especially, moms have taken on even more and they deserve to be treated to at least one special day that is all theirs. You may not be able to get a mariachi band to serenade your favorite mom, but a little creativity will definitely be appreciated!

Filed Under: Holidays Tagged With: celebration, Coronavirus, Mother's Day

Celebrating Cinco De Mayo at Home

By Monterey Bay Staff | May 5, 2020

While Cinco de Mayo usually involves fun with neighbors and the community, this year an at-home celebration can be just as fun. Read on for some suggestions to make your Cinco de Mayo a fun-filled day.

Make a piñata. All you need is tissue, glue, poster board, cardboard, and tape in order to make your own DIY piñata. Here’s a relatively easy ball piñata that (they promise!) you can make in 30 minutes. Click for instructions.

Set the mood with music. You can use playlists from Spotify, Amazon, or Apple Music. If you’d like to create your own playlist, Billboard has a set of ten “must have” songs to download.

Now that the music is loud, it’s time for traditional Mexican dancing. The most internationally well-known and perhaps the most patriotic of all of Mexico’s dances is the Jarabe Tapatío. Typically referred to as the Mexican Hat Dance in English, this is Mexico’s national dance. Click here for YouTube video to learn how to dance the Jarabe Tapatío.

For fun virtual entertainment, check out these options:

The Grammy Museum in Los Angeles is holding a Cinco de Mayo event at 5:00 pm on Instagram Live. The bilingual celebration — hosted by the American-born Chilean songwriter Francisca Valenzuela — will highlight several genres within Mexican music. Participants include Mireya Ramos, a founder of the Latin Grammy-winning group Flor De Toloache, considered New York City’s first and only female mariachi band; and the Latin Grammy-winning producer Aureo Baqueiro.

To follow The Grammy Museum and attend the event, click here.

Old Town San Diego will host their Virtual Fiesta Old Town Cinco de Mayo online on Tuesday, from 4 p.m. to 6:30 p.m. The celebration will be streamed on Facebook, YouTube, and Old Town’s website. The online will also host live Mariachi and Salsa dance performances, food- and drink-making demonstrations with chefs and mixologists, crafts, and more.

To see the full schedule of events and find links to attend, click here.

Cinco de Mayo Live Festival in Austin. Eva Longoria is set to host a star-studded Cinco de Mayo fundraiser, alongside fellow Latinos Gloria Estefan and Luis Fonsi to aid the fight against the coronavirus pandemic. The virtual concert will stream live on Facebook Live, Youtube, Twitch, Twitter, iHeartLatino’s radio stations and websites, among other social media platforms. The event is free to watch but viewers will be encouraged to make donations. To access the schedule and link to watch, click here.

Finally, although most businesses are closed, chances are your spot for tacos, tamales or taquitos is still open. Support our Monterey County businesses by ordering your Cinco de Mayo celebration meal at one of our area Mexican restaurants.

Filed Under: Holidays Tagged With: celebration, Cinco de Mayo, Coronavirus

The History of and Fun Facts About St. Patrick’s Day

By Monterey Bay Staff | February 24, 2019

It’s March! For many of us in the US that means one thing, St. Patrick’s Day! It is a call to celebrate shamrocks, leprechauns, and everything Irish. St. Patrick’s Day, for many, is the day to celebrate Irish heritage through dance, song, and camaraderie. For me, St. Patrick’s Day is the smell of peat bricks burning in my grandparents’ fireplace and spending time with family.

History of St. Patrick’s Day

The day is celebrated on the anniversary of the death of St. Patrick, March 17th. The Irish celebrated it as a purely religious holiday for over 1,000 years. It wasn’t until 1762 that St. Patrick’s Day began to take shape as the holiday we know it as today. The Irish soldiers who were serving in the English military during the Revolutionary War marched down the streets of New York City. They were playing music and dancing to reconnect to their roots and bring Irish pride to the city.  

These celebrations spread throughout the country over the next 50 years supported by Irish Aid Societies that promoted Irish heritage. Cities such as Chicago, Boston, Philadelphia, and Savannah began to have large parades with 10,000 to 20,000 attendants. St. Patrick’s Day celebrations only continued to grow after the potato famine in Ireland in 1845 in which 1 million Irish emigrated to the United States. The holiday served as a connection to the homeland for many Irish people and a beacon at the end of cold winters.  

Ten Interesting Facts About St. Patrick’s Day

  1.  In Ireland, St Patrick’s Day is a national holiday where banks, stores, and businesses close for the day.
  2. St. Patrick wasn’t even Irish, he was born in Britain in A.D. 390 and was never canonized by the pope making his status as a saint questionable.
  3. The original color of St. Patrick’s Day was blue, and the shift to green is credited with Ireland’s nickname of “The Emerald Isle.”
  4. The legend of the four-leaf clover is that the four leaves symbolize “hope, faith, love, and luck.”
  5. 1962 was the first time Chicago dyed their river green to celebrate St. Patrick’s Day
  6. There is a National Leprechaun Museum in Dublin, Ireland that hosts tours in both the day and night.
  7. Guinness is the unofficial drink of St. Patrick’s Day. 
  8. While the 1762 New York City parade is credited for starting the St. Patrick’s Day tradition in America, the first recorded St. Patrick’s Day parade happened in Boston in 1737.
  9. There are over 34 million Americans with Irish heritage.
  10. There are many St. Patrick’s Day celebrations throughout the world including those in Singapore, Japan, and Russia. 

Filed Under: Holidays Tagged With: celebration, holiday, news you need, St. Patrick's Day

What Do Kids Really Want for Their Birthday?

By Monterey Bay Staff | July 1, 2018

Kids want what we all want for our birthdays–to be seen and celebrated in a way that recognizes who we are and what we love. For some kids–like mine –that’s a quiet backyard party with family and a best friend. For others, it’s a wild afternoon at Chuck E Cheese with their entire class (and Godspeed to the parents of that child; may your coffee be strong and your child’s bedtime be early). 

I spoke with parents and interviewed children at the Porter Youth Center, who answered the question, “What do kids really want for their birthday?” The verdict: kids want to do what they love with the people they care about. These five questions can help reveal the perfect party for yours. 

Five questions to ask before the next birthday party:

1. Does your kid like to be involved in plans? If so, put them to work! Not everyone loves surprises; for many, prepping and hosting is half the fun. 

“My four year old loves helping me decorate our house for her birthday and then inviting her friends over for a party. We keep it simple: lots of balloons, a banner, tablecloth and paper plates, maybe some hanging decorations, and goodie bags. She loves being a host and having us all here to welcome her friends.”

– Deborah Araujo

“My daughters love baking and decorating the cakes as a family. And for each of us to make pictures and cards for each other’s birthdays.”

– Laura Spegal

2. Does your child get a kick out of novel experiences? Not everyone likes to spend birthdays way outside of their comfort zone, but some kids will leap at the chance to try something new. 

“My birthday was last month, and I went to a bike track called the Pump Track in Capitola. It was fun because there were a lot of jumps there, and I brought two of my friends.”

– Davis (10)

“My boys love adventures. Hunting for beach glass at Window on the Bay is our top favorite!”

–  Megan Knauf-Ford

“I like extreme stuff like skateboarding. And there should be activities that everybody would like.” 

– Elija (8)

“I would want to go to Universal Studios where you see a bunch of superheroes!”

– Cheyenne (10)

3. Would your child appreciate the chance to give back on their birthday? When I spoke with parents and kids, several mentioned the desire to spend their day helping others. 

“My daughter loves to spend time at the SPCA and has dedicated her birthday cash to raising funds for the SPCA. Yesterday was her 7th birthday, and she asked to spend it at the SPCA with the animals.”

– Erin Borges

“I’d like to visit the pound or another animal shelter. When I was six I started wanting to be a vet, and I know it’s really good for animals to see people who care about them.”

–  Nia (10)

4. Whose company are they craving? To a lot of kids, the best part about a party is the chance to spend time with their favorite people. 

“A lot of people would want presents or money, but for me it’s seeing my family members that I don’t get to see as much. Like my cousins and grandma and grandpa.”

– Malena (15) 

“Aside from books, my eight year old always said she wants to spend more time with family, so we try to focus on adventures and experiences.”

– Erin Donnelly

“If the child is one of siblings, give them a special outing with mom and dad!”

– Savannah Bruch

“I’d want a sleepover with just a couple close friends. And good food, and cake. And if you don’t know what to get your kid, get them money, so they can get something they want.”

– Alayna (10)

5. What are they into these days? Focusing on an interest or hobby guarantees your kid will have fun, and gives them a chance to share what they love with friends and family.

“Our girls loved having a favorite character or animal come to their party. I surprised them with a mini pony at their party and they were over the moon!”

– Anya Heidenberg

“The trend today is providing experiences. We have too much stuff, and the best memories are made when we spend time with people we love doing the things we love.” 

– Lauren Cohen

“I agree–experiences over stuff! We rented out a movie theater for Charli’s 4th birthday, and invited all of our friends for a showing of The Little Mermaid, with popcorn and cupcakes!”

– Sarah Saleet

“Bicycle powered smoothies pedaled out by both parents and kids are perfect for beach bashes.”

– Michael Baroni

“We go with themed parties. This year we did a Harry Potter theme. I made invites, and we had special cookies made by Baked Sweetly by Lizzy!”

– Claudia Santora

“My boys don’t want parties. They want to go somewhere as a family. One of the best birthdays was when we spent the night at the Monterey Bay Aquarium. Such a great experience.”

– Jaime Dillard

“When I was a kid, all I ever wanted was a slip and slide. Pretty much every year.” 

– Kiara McBain

The surest way to make their next birthday extra-special? Pay attention to the experiences that light your kid up–the days they talk about months or even years later. 

Katie Raquel is a small business owner and mother of three living in Monterey County.

Filed Under: Birthdays Tagged With: birthday, celebration, party

Five Super Easy Birthday Cakes Your Guests Will Love

By Monterey Bay Staff | July 4, 2017

There’s are a lot of reasons why you might choose to make a home-baked birthday cake: to save money, to please a picky eater, or to have the perfect themed cake for your child’s next party. If you’d like to make your own cake but also want to keep the decorating super-easy, here are five cakes that may be exactly what you’re looking for.

Kit Kat Birthday Cake. This cake is colorful and delicious and could be made in whatever color combination you choose. It looks a lot more difficult to make than it actually is–the decorations are just Kit Kat bars and M & M’s. You can also adjust this one for almost any occasion, not just birthdays.

Click here for complete instructions.

Ice Cream Sandwich Cake. This cake doesn’t even need baking, it doesn’t get easier! Perfect for an outdoor party on a hot day, this one is sure to please kids and adults with its strong chocolate flavor.

Click here for complete instructions.

Number Sprinkle Cake. Easy peasy! Just make your favorite cake, put on your favorite frosting, and then sprinkle around a stencil you make of your child’s age.

Click here for complete instructions.

Easy Colorful Dot Cake. Make your favorite cake and cover with white icing. To decorate, just press on colorful mini, regular, and peanut M & M’s in rows.

Click here for complete instructions.

Construction Site Cake. Do you have a child who loves construction and trucks? If so, this is the cake for you! It really requires nothing more than a few well-laced props and a few dabs of green icing.

Click here for complete instructions.

Filed Under: Birthdays Tagged With: birthday, celebration, news you need, party

Ten Easy (& Inexpensive!) Party Games

By Monterey Bay Staff | June 30, 2017

Are you planning a birthday party and have no idea how to entertain a large group? Perhaps you have ideas, but have reached your party budget? Here are ten easy and inexpensive party games the whole family will enjoy.

1. String Donut Eating Contest

Materials: One dozen donuts (or more.), string, scissors.

Directions: Tie each donut to a string and hang them from a tree branch or clothesline. With their hands behind their back, the participants will race each other to finish eating their donut when you say “go.”

Variation: Blindfold older children and adults to make the game more challenging.

2. Cookie Face Race

Materials: Cookies with flat sides, chairs.

Directions: Have participants sit on a chair. The leader of the game will place a cookie on each forehead. Without using their hands, players must race to move the cookie from their forehead to their mouth and catch it in their mouth. This game will provide endless giggles for both players and their audience as they try and master their facial muscles to move the cookie. With a large group of players, do a couple of rounds then a final round where the winners challenge each other for the Cookie Face Master title. Be ready to record or photograph this game; it´s an instant favorite.

Variation: Tie hands behind their back, or challenge older players to compete standing up.

3. Musical Chairs

Materials: Placemats, music.

Directions: Mix up this classic game by ditching the chairs and using placemats outside. When the music plays, players must move in a circle around the placemats. When the music stops, players must race to stand on a placemat. The person without a placemat is out of the game. Take a placemat out each time until only one player is left.

Variation: Each time the music stops, have players change direction. You can also have players skip, dance, spin, or walk backward to make it more fun and challenging.

4. Over, Under

Materials: Two or more wrapped boxes with treats inside.

Directions: You will need two equal groups of at least five players or more. Each group stands in a line facing forward, with the person in the front of the line holding the box. When you say go, the players must pass the box backward, starting over their head, then under between their legs, over, under, alternating until the box makes it to the player at the back of the line. When it reaches the last person, they must run to the front of their line and do it again. When the original line leader makes it to the front of their line first, that team wins. The winning team gets to unwrap their box and keep the treats.

Variation: Use several empty boxes with only one box that is filled with treats. Teams will have to play a few rounds to find the winning treat box. Fill the trick boxes with confetti, paper or small objects to add weight.

5. Birthday Wrap

Materials: 1 dozen rolls of toilet paper or streamers.

Directions: Two teams of three players will race to wrap one player in paper or streamer from head to toe. The person being wrapped must stand in place and cannot move or assist their team.

Variation: Add a time limit or more groups for a harder challenge.

6. Balloon Pop

Materials: Two dozen balloons, two hula hoops.

Directions: Fill up balloons with air, tie them and set them aside for the game. Have two equal teams line up at one end, and place two hula hoops across at another end. When you say go, the person at the front of the line must run to the hoop, pop the balloon, race back and high five the next person in line to go. The first team to make it back wins the round.

Variation: Add obstacles such as boxes to jump over, or a chair to crawl under before players can reach the hoop.

7. Banana Tag

Materials: None.

Directions: Go over the rules before the game starts. You will need to designate boundaries for the game. When the game starts, everyone is ¨it¨. When a player gets tagged, that player must sit down where they were tagged. They can stand up again when the player who tagged them gets tagged. If two players tag each other at the same time, they have to play ¨rock, paper, scissors¨ to determine who will sit down. Players who want to take a break must stand outside of the boundaries, so players inside don´t get confused about who is active in the zone.

Variation: For a final round, people who get tagged are out of the game. Offer a prize to the last person standing.

8. Birthday Leap

Materials: Two ropes of equal length.

Directions: Start by placing the ropes a few inches from each other. Everyone participating must take a turn and leap over the ropes without touching them. When everyone has had a turn, place one of the ropes a little farther. Have everyone leap over again. Continue doing this for several rounds. Players who touch the rope are out. Keep separating the rope a bit farther, and soon you will have players running and leaping over the ropes. Offer a prize to the grandest leap.

9. Tall Towers

Materials: Stacks of paper, tape, paper clips, feathers.

Directions: Set the same amount of materials on flat surfaces for three or more equal teams. Explain that teams will have three minutes to talk about how they can build the tallest tower possible with the materials they have. During these three minutes, no one is allowed to touch the materials. When the time runs out, teams will then have five minutes to build the tallest tower without talking.

Variation: Have the teams race to build the tallest tower in five minutes using ONLY paper.

10. Balloon Blast

Materials: 3 dozen balloons, string, scissors.

Directions: Fill up balloons and tie three to a string. Leave plenty of room on the string to tie later. Prep at least a dozen of these, depending on how many players you anticipate. To play the game, designate a space where players can run around. Each player will tie the string of balloons around their foot. When you say go, players must run around trying to pop other players´ balloons without getting their own popped. When players have no more balloons, they must sit out of the game. The last person standing wins the round.

Variation: Create teams by using only two balloon colors and have teams try and pop the other groups´ balloons.

Rosa Escobosa lives in Salinas with her partner and two-year-old son. She works in after school, attends college, participates in local 10K´s and charity drives, hosts hikes for families, and is currently working on starting her own Etsy store selling crafts online.

Filed Under: Holidays Tagged With: birthday, celebration, party

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