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Monterey Bay Parent » preschool

Raising Readers: Prioritizing Literacy for Kids Under Five

By Jessica Thibault | December 20, 2024

Early literacy is one of the most important things to focus on for children’s development and success. Though most kids aren’t able to read on their own before age five (totally normal), setting a strong foundation during the first few years is crucial for success in school and life.

Beyond reading, speaking develops valuable preliteracy skills. According to the Read to Me Project, caregivers should talk to children under five as much as possible because 85 percent of brain development occurs in this phase. To help build speaking skills, reading specialist and literacy coach Ruth Benge recommends repeating what toddlers say “slowly and clearly, in a calm, warm and normal tone of voice” while “rephrasing to use the words correctly with adult grammar”: e.g., Toddler: “Me go,” Adult: “You’re saying you want to go?” “Studies show that the more direct words a little one hears before they start kindergarten, the easier school will be for them,” says Read to Me Project Executive Director Jason Little. One part of this nonprofit’s work with fourth, fifth, and sixth graders in low-literacy school districts is coaching them on the nine best ways to read to young children and providing specially curated books for them to read to their siblings under five each day, nurturing relationships while offering literacy enrichment. 

Seventy-five percent of children in Monterey County start kindergarten at least two years behind in basic skills. “Schools don’t expect kids to come in reading but learning their letters and practicing sounds, for example, rhyming, before starting formal school is very important,” said Heather Zunguze, elementary intervention teacher at Robert H. Down Elementary School trained in math and English. Ruth Benge of California State University Monterey Bay’s Center for Reading Diagnosis and Instruction (CSUMB’s CRDI) suggests caregivers of children three and under “sing songs with hand motions and let kids ‘sing along’ while clapping with the song’s rhythm.” Benge recommends that caregivers of pre kindergarteners “play with sounds inside words: sort pictures and objects by the sound or sounds in the name of each object and engage in ‘robot talk’ when the adult makes a robot-sounding puppet say the sounds ‘fff’ ‘iiii’ ‘shhh’ and children say ‘fish.’” Another pre-K caregiver priority that Benge suggests is to read aloud referencing the print, “running fingers under words, noting specific features of print and letter (e.g., “That is the letter ‘d,’ like in Deondre’s name.”), and asking children where to start reading and where to go next at the end of the line of text.”

Benge recommends always keeping books and writing materials easily accessible to children. Bonus: connect materials to the child’s interests, background, and cultural experiences. “Remember low-tech is best—skip ebooks,” she adds. Libraries offer many free literacy-promoting programs for children as well as new-to-you books. As of springtime, the Monterey Public Library will offer locker pickup locations to make borrowing books more convenient—grab your requested books while you’re near the Monterey Sports Center or Montecito Park without having to make it to the library during business hours.

Beyond borrowing books, there are easy ways to build your home library: To start off strong, members of the Monterey Bay Parent Baby Club (for children up to 18 months) receive a voucher for a free book. Through the national Reach Out and Read program that recognizes the vital importance of reading, popular pediatricians such as Monterey Peninsula Pediatric Medical Group and Stanford Medicine Children’s Health-Monterey give each child a book at all well-child visits between six months and five years old. Peruse Little Free Libraries around town. Traditional libraries offer seasonal reading challenges that often reward participants with a free take-home book. 

If your four-year-old or older student (up to twelfth grade) needs some extra reading support beyond school-based options, join the waitlist for the CSUMB Center for Reading Diagnosis and Instruction. The CRDI offers support to striving readers, including English language learners and children with disabilities or mild-to-moderate autism. Services include goal-setting tailored to each child, ongoing growth/performance progress monitoring, and individual and small group instruction, all based on evidence-based strategies and curriculum. In-person and Zoom instruction are offered in the fall, spring, and summer, and tuition assistance is available. 

Choose a few new literacy-promoting approaches to try with the young children in your life.

Filed Under: Preschool, Print Issue Tagged With: literacy, preschool, reading

Meet the Teachers: Three Preschool Teachers Share their Experience

By Denise Green | December 27, 2023

What better way to learn about the preschool experience than talking with classroom teachers? We chatted with three local teachers to learn why they chose teaching as a vocation and the joy of surrounding themselves with three- to five-year-olds daily. In the process, they offer valuable advice on choosing a preschool.   

THE DECISION TO TEACH

Preschool is an exciting and important milestone for both parents and children. Preschool teachers are pretty magical, with seemingly unlimited patience and kindness. Why did these teachers go into the profession?

Carisa Abila of Serendipity Preschool always knew that she wanted to work with young children, and after graduating from college, working at a preschool allowed her to gain more experience in the field of child development. From there, she says, “I completely fell in love with the age group and became invested in the children, families, and school community.”

Elaine Fernandez spent several years teaching older grades. She eventually took the position of full-time prekindergarten teacher at Santa Catalina. The catalyst? According to Fernandez, it’s “their excitement and eagerness to learn, as well as the hilarious stories they tell.”

Brandy Morrow of The Parent Center took a child development class in high school and has “been working with kids and teaching in different levels and roles ever since.”

BUILDING CONNECTIONS

Preschool families tend to form bonds that will last years for some. It’s not just a great way for the children to socialize but also for the parents, especially at co-op preschools.

At The Parent Center, the adults interact and get to know one another during their time in the classroom. It can also throw parents out of their comfort zone. During a recent music and movement class, Morrow had four parents waving silk scarves as they danced along to the music. The dads and kids got into it and had a blast.

The family of a student in Elaine’s class owned a farm and brought in a baby lamb to share with the class. This student was so proud to share how they were taking care of it, and it was a great experience for all the other students.

At Serendipity Preschool the teachers and administration frequently receive updates from families about former students which helps in creating a strong sense of community. In fact, a current teacher was once a student. Carisa says, “Serendipity is a big reason why I have come to love preschool so much because of how the Nuovo family has built a community, as well as a family, with their staff and clients.”

At Santa Catalina, a program called Projects of Passion allows the students to choose a service learning place to work with throughout the year. This year’s prekindergarten class adopted the Santa Cruz SPCA. The students took a field trip to the Santa Cruz SPCA to learn about what they do to help animals and which animals they help. The students also collected used towels for use within the animal shelter.

A TYPICAL DAY

Each of our preschool teachers has a routine that builds consistency for the children. They engage with parents as the child is dropped off and help the children settle into the morning, including one or more circle time sessions, outdoor play, crafts, reading, and other activity time.

At Serendipity Preschool, even the littlest learners get to take advantage of campus resources, including going to the gymnasium for PE, the dance studio to have creative dance lessons, and the library.

Music and movement are a big part of The Parent Center curriculum and Brandy’s favorite part of the day. She says that the children “get to explore different ways to move, and kids have to listen and follow directions and move their bodies in ways that might be more challenging but in a fun way. It’s fun to watch the parents be silly during that time, too.”

ADVICE ON CHOOSING A PRESCHOOL

Finding the right fit for your child is usually the top concern of parents when choosing a preschool. These teachers advised parents to visit the schools they’re considering, meet the teachers, and ask a lot of questions. Carisa advises parents to trust their intuition about the environment they want their children in.

The teachers shared that parents should look for an age-appropriate program that fits the needs of their child and family. Make sure it’s play-based, the staff is organized and friendly, and the teachers have an education in early childhood.

According to Elaine, “If you’re looking for a great head start for your child and something curriculum-based, asking questions about their program is a great place to start. It depends on your family needs and where you believe your child will thrive.”

SETTING YOUR CHILD UP FOR SUCCESS

If you’re almost ready to send your child off to preschool, there are some things you can do to make the transition as easy as possible. You’ve probably been playing letter games with your child, practicing cutting with child scissors, coloring, and reading to your child. This is an excellent time to double up on those activities so your child is comfortable and familiar with some of the basics of a preschool day. You’ll want to communicate with your child about the new experience. Carisa advises, “Talk to them about what’s going to happen, visit the school together, and talk about or even meet the teacher.”

She further advises parents of children who haven’t had experience with an outside caregiver to introduce them to activities or other caregivers before their first day of school.

Elaine reminds parents, “The first days of school can be scary, so telling your child what to expect and giving them extra love or their favorite snack can be helpful.”

These teachers agree on keeping the lines of communication open with your child’s new caregivers. Your child’s teachers are happy to help parents through this transition! Keep in touch, ask questions, and read your school’s email or online portal messages. Most importantly, talk to your child. Ask them questions about their day, listen to their stories, and assess how they are adapting.

The teachers included in this article share a dedication to their students. It’s easy to see that our little ones are in great hands for their first educational experience in any of their classrooms.

Filed Under: Education News Tagged With: January 2024, preschool, teaching

Monterey County Recommended Preschools

By Monterey Bay Parent Editors | December 27, 2023

CITY OF SEASIDE TINY TOT UNIVERSITY

  • 986 Hilby Avenue
  • Seaside California 93955
  • 831-899-6823

Tiny Tot University is a preschool program for children three to five years of age. Our program is geared toward helping your child develop in a fun and creative way. The educators facilitate student led social and problem solving skills. The program includes STEAM activities, sports, sand and water play, singing and finger plays, stories, dramatic play, painting, drawing, unit block work, writing, small group activities, and opportunities for exploration.

MONTEREY BAY CHARTER SCHOOL

  • 1004 David Avenue, Pacific Grove, 93950
  • 831-655-4638

Monterey Bay Charter School offers a free TK program guided by the core principles for public Waldorf education.The unique program delivers the rigorous state-adopted standards through Waldorf pedagogy, placing an emphasis on the arts in daily learning and expression.

MONTEREY PENINSULA UNIFIED SCHOOL DISTRICT PRESCHOOL & TRANSITIONAL KINDERGARTEN

  • Marina, Seaside, and DLAMP Monterey preschools: 831-392-3456

Preschool for ages 3 and 4, transitional kindergarten for children who turn 5 between Sept. 2 and June 5. Music, arts and crafts, language development, multicultural education, reading, mathematics and more. Preschool based on income eligibility.

MONTEREY RECREATION PRESCHOOL PROGRAMS

  • El Estero Park Center, 831-646-3873
  • Hilltop Park Center, 831-646-3975

The City of Monterey Recreation Division has been offering popular and educational preschool programs for children ages 3-5, since 1963. We realize the importance of developing learning skills, and our program emphasizes that children learn best through play. The curriculum is based on developmentally appropriate activities that foster the creative, social, emotional, language and physical growth of each child. Daily activities include art, music, science, math, pre- reading and writing skills, movement and story-time. Thenprogram strives to develop acceptance and appreciation of the similarities and differences between people and cultures. We provide a safe and nurturing environment where your child’s need for discovery and development is recognized and encouraged.

PACIFIC GROVE RECREATION PRESCHOOL PROGRAM

  • 515 Junipero Ave, Pacific Grove, 93950
  • 831-648-3135

The City of Pacific Grove Recreation Department offers a preschool program for children ages 3-5 years. Our program is built with the understanding that children learn best when they are provided with meaningful opportunities for play and interaction with their classmates in a supportive setting. The goal of our program is to meet the individual academic, social, emotional, and physical needs of each child by providing a play-based curriculum and a safe and enriching learning environment. Developmentally appropriate activities include art, sensory, math, science, music and movement, and outdoor play. Our dedicated staff strive to foster your child’s natural curiosity for learning, exploration, and creative expression.

POTRERO CANYON SCHOOL

  • 5716 Carmel Valley Road,
  • Carmel, 93923, 831-625-0545

Our dedicated team of teachers provide loving, respectful, and nurturing care for children ages 2-1/2 to 5, including a pre-k classroom, in a fun, safe, and positive learning environment. The mixed-age, low ratio activities foster creativity, confidence, kindness, independence, with an emphasis on developing each child’s social- emotional skills.

SACRED HEART PRESCHOOL

  • 135 West Market Street, Salinas, 93901
  • 831-240-0889

Sacred Heart Preschool’s curriculum focuses on creating a comfortable transition into the educational setting for children three to five years old. We emphasize building moral values, self- esteem, problem-solving, academic readiness, and lifelong skills. We offer a safe and loving environment in which children have the opportunity to explore and learn at a pace that is in line with their social and emotional development.

SAN CARLOS

  • 450 Church Street, Monterey, 93940
  • (831) 375-1324

Transitional Kindergarten (TK) at San Carlos is a two-year kindergarten program that blends socialization and play along with structured activities. The program is ideal for children who need more academic challenges than offered in a typical preschool setting but are not yet ready for a full-day Kindergarten.  The TK program affords young learners a head start and provides them with opportunities to thrive in an environment that is tailored to meet students’ academic, social, and spiritual needs.

SANTA CATALINA LOWER AND MIDDLE SCHOOL

  • 1500 Mark Thomas Drive,
  • Monterey, 93940, 831-655-9337

Santa Catalina offers a PreKindergarten program that is balanced and child-centered. The program offers children opportunities for free exploration, as well as plenty of exposure to guided instruction and learning. For children in Santa Catalina’s PreKindergarten class, school is a place where learning and fun go hand in hand.

SERENDIPITY PRESCHOOL

  • 1231 Seventh Street, Monterey, 93940
  • 831-375-9743

Serendipity Preschool was established in 1981 by a mother and daughter team who had a dream to educate and prepare young children in an environment rich in art, music, science and history. Serendipity offers a high quality program with age appropriate activities that develop good reading and math readiness skills and thematic units rich in music, art, science and history. Serendipity offers a stimulating learning environment that provides materials, experiences, guidance and encouragement that help children to become curious explorers of their world.

SHORELINE PRESCHOOL

  • 2500 Garden Road, Monterey
  • 831-641-0209
  • 22732 Portola Drive, Salinas
  • 831-484-5005

Shoreline Preschool is committed to giving your child a positive and successful first school experience. In keeping with a dedication to an excellent early learning experience, staff provide a high level of personal attention to each child by keeping class sizes and class ratios lower than mandated by state licensing. The programs provide a nurturing environment that develops the unique potential of each child by fostering social, emotional, physical, and intellectual growth with an emphasis on Christian beliefs and values.

STEVENSON SCHOOL

  • 24800 Dolores Street, Carmel, 93921
  • 831-574-4604

In the Pre-Kindergarten (PK) classroom a trusting and caring relationship is developed between teacher and child by providing a safe, loving, and happy place to join the school community. The goal is to foster critical inquiry and discovery along with self- confidence and self-awareness. The child-centric program promotes a learning environment that encourages individuals to cultivate human connection and meet developmental and academic milestones. The curriculum prioritizes process over product, and play is valued as an important part of that process.

WELLSPRING PRESCHOOL

  • 141 14th St. Pacific Grove, CA 93950
  • 831-373-4705

At Wellspring, experienced educators set up playful inquiry for the mixed age classes taking inspiration from Reggio Emilia schools. Staff helps your potty trained children between the ages of 2.5 and 5 years old see the connections between ourselves, the community, and the world God created. The low student to teacher ratio ensures that every child gets the time they need to thrive. In the Wellspring community, play is key and learning is joyful.

Filed Under: Education News Tagged With: education, January 2024, preschool

How To Get Your Preschooler Excited for Summer Camp

By Monterey Bay Parent Editors | April 23, 2023

“Who’s excited about camp?”  

My twin toddlers looked up at me with perplexed expressions on their faces. They had no idea what I was talking about.

Since they were already signed up, I wanted to make sure they had fun.

Here’s how I got them excited about camp:  

  • Go To The Library. Go to the local library with your aspiring camper and check out every video and picture book regarding the topic. You can also look on YouTube for camp videos or songs or stream the videos online through your library. The idea behind this is to create excitement and help them to understand what to expect. You can also talk about your own camp experiences.
  • Hit The Stores. With the camp list in hand, we went to the local mall and shopped for the items. They loved picking out their favorite towel, bathing suit and sunglasses. I even let them buy a new backpack just for camp. While we shopped, we discussed the different activities they will participate in at camps like swimming and sports.
  • Learning About Friendship. When you are at home playing games like Candyland with your kid, talk about things like taking turns and how to have conversations with new kids. You can ask your kid questions like, “What are some things you can talk about with kids your age?” Or ask them, “What are some ways to make new friends?” You can also read books or watch movies about friendship.
  • Play Camp Games. You can play some camp games at home to get them excited and prepared. One common camp game is mini Olympics. You can set up some different types of races like relay races. Another suggestion is to create a scavenger hunt with camp-related items like a backpack and sunglasses. After you are done you can cook up some s’mores.
  • Go Swimming. If your child’s camp offers swimming lessons or free swimming, you will want to take your child swimming beforehand to discuss water safety and to help reinforce that swimming is fun. A lot of kids fear going into the water when they first take swimming lessons, especially when there are tons of kids splashing around. By taking your child swimming before camp starts you will ease some of these anxieties.
  • Schedule A Visit. Most camps will offer an open house or orientation to help your child understand what camp will be like. This is a perfect time for your kid to ask questions and meet counselors or other campers. If possible before camp starts set up a play date with some kids that are going to be at the camp. It will make it easier during drop-off if they recognize some familiar faces.
  • Create A Countdown. My kids love countdowns for holidays like Christmas and vacations. You can keep track of the number of days until camp starts by using a countdown calendar, countdown app or create paper chain links for the number of days until camp starts that you tear off every day. This helps to build excitement and prepare them for when the big day will occur.

Who’s excited about camp?

After I did all of the suggestions with my twins, when I asked the question again, they both jumped up and down with excitement. And when they attended camp they loved it.


Cheryl Maguire holds a Master of Counseling Psychology degree. She is married and is the mother of twins and a daughter. Her writing has been published in The New York Times, The Washington Post, Parents Magazine, and many other publications. You can find her at Twitter @CherylMaguire05.

Filed Under: Preschool Tagged With: preschool, summer camp

Take our Tour of Preschool Philosophies

By Sabrina Hiltunen | December 27, 2022

ACADEMIC

True to its namesake, Academic Preschools focus on kindergarten readiness with reading and math skills. The classroom activities are more structured and scheduled than in other preschools, and play is during recess and a set time. Other examples of the Academic Preschool curriculum include measuring time, problem-solving, colors, and letter and number identification.

BANK STREET

One of the most modern preschool philosophies is Bank Street and what differentiates their curriculum is an interdisciplinary approach to educating the whole child – intellectually, emotionally, physically, and socially. The program focuses on emotional intelligence, children’s introspection, understanding themselves and the world around them, and working together and respecting others. Children of different ages are in the same classroom and work together in collaboration. An example of a Bank Street learning model is the teacher talking about where food comes from while children are playing restaurant in the play kitchen.

CO-OP

Co-ops are a good fit for parents seeking a hands-on role and involvement in their child’s school. For stay-at-home parents, families with flexible work hours, or local grandparents, co-ops can be an excellent way to get a wonderful preschool at a more affordable cost.

The co-op’s curriculum includes play-based learning led by a teacher, and the family members/caretakers are co-teachers, assisting, watching the children, setting up, and cleaning activities. The co-op requires a minimum number of participation hours, and sometimes there are communal requirements.

Many families enjoy the community co-ops and support systems for children and adults.

DEVELOPMENTAL AND PLAY-BASED

The most common preschool philosophy in the United States is “developmental” or play-based. This is often student-led and teacher-facilitated, where the child will explore through play, and the teacher will take the opportunity for teaching moments. For example, the teacher can count with the child if a student is using building blocks. In these preschool classrooms, you will find different stations, such as dress-up clothes, a reading corner, art supplies, and tables with nearby blocks and magnet tiles.

There are some structured activities, such as circle and story time, but this playtime allows the children to explore throughout the classroom, individually, in parallel play, or with peers.

The philosophy behind developmental and play-based learning is that children build a love of learning and confidence through curiosity and creativity.

DUAL LANGUAGE

Dual language programs consist of a bilingual education that values the student’s native language while developing biliteracy and academic achievements in both languages. The goal is for early learners to become completely literate in two languages as adults, and approximately 70% of their time in school is taught in their native language.

HIGHSCOPE

HighScope’s classwork focuses on creative exploration and pretend play, and the curriculum uses key development indicators (KDI) as teachers’ guidelines. These KDIs help teachers choose activities and projects for their students. HighScope follows a “play-do-review” curriculum where students choose what they want to work on and create a goal for the day.

Learning is play-based, and teachers work with the children with hands-on projects; an example would include a child interested in space being encouraged to build a model of the planets.

Social interaction is encouraged, and a consistent routine is followed to create predictability and for children to have autonomy.

MONTESSORI

Over 100 years ago, Italian physician Dr. Maria Montessori developed the learning philosophy named in her honor. She believed the first six years of a child’s life are critical and that learning should take place in a nurturing environment that encourages the child’s natural interests, curiosities, and abilities. The classes are student-driven, and the child is encouraged to follow their natural interests compared to formal instruction. Examples of classroom materials are paint to create art, water play, and blocks to build.

Community and relationship building is important in the Montessori philosophy, and the classes and teachers typically stay together for three consecutive years. Children of different ages are often in the same class, and older students are encouraged to mentor younger classmates.

According to the American Montessori Society, “In a Montessori classroom, teachers assess students daily, using their observations of each child’s interactions in the environment and with peers. They use their knowledge of child development and academic outcomes to prepare an environment simultaneously stimulating and academically, physically, socially, and emotionally accessible.”

THE OPEN PRESCHOOL

Outdoor preschool programs tend to follow up the Open Preschool philosophy. Founded in the British educational system, these programs use the earth and nature as the child’s classroom and focus on natural curiosities. This program allows children to develop at their own pace and gravitate toward their interests. Learning is often student-led and has a wide range of applications. Examples include nature exploration walks, weather discussions, and making flower crowns.

REGGIO EMILIA

Reggio Emilia was developed after WW2 in Italy, and it focuses on community, exploration, and a self-guided curriculum based on the child’s natural development. The program is student-driven and uses hands-on activities that foster relationship-building and active listening.

According to the Reggio Children Organization, “The curriculum bases its structure around ‘the participation of families, the collegial work of all the personnel, the importance of the educational environment, the presence of the creative space and the figure of the art teacher, the in-school kitchen, and the pedagogical coordinating team.” Examples of learning activities include using a sensory table, discovering and discussing insects, flowers, and plants on the playground, and creating noise makers for music and dramatic plays.

RELIGIOUS-AFFILIATED

Some religious organizations offer faith-based preschools. The curriculum’s focus on the religion can vary, whether reciting prayers and singing hymns or religious teachings and instruction.

WALDORF

The Waldorf educational model was introduced in the United States in 1928, a philosophy founded by Austrian scientist and philosopher Rudolf Steiner. The Waldorf philosophy emphasizes critical thinking, practical work, learning by experiencing, creativity, drama, and the arts over competitive testing, academic placement, and memorizing facts. The teacher and students collaborate on what they want to learn, and teachers may stay with the same classmates for up to eight years. Examples include gardening, cooking, baking, storytelling, music, and painting.

Filed Under: Education News Tagged With: education, preschool

Time for Preschool!

By Monterey Bay Parent Editors | December 27, 2022

Knowing all you can about preschool expectations and activities before your child meets the minimum requirements to attend can help set them up for success. Typically, children can begin preschool at age two if potty trained, but preschool is not required in California. Does preschool attendance matter, then? Without hesitation, two longtime area preschool directors I talked to say it does!

Foundations for Learning

“Preschool provides a foundation for learning and the opportunity for young children to interact with peers and teachers,” said Christine Aiello, Pre-K Teacher and Director of Miss Barbara’s Child Development Center in Marina. “They’re also developing language skills and learning to make choices, share, and care for themselves and others.”

Preschool is so vital to your child’s social-emotional and cognitive development that the California Department of Education has published three volumes of preschool learning foundations to provide educators and parents with an idea of the broad range of knowledge and skills preschool children usually achieve when given the opportunity in a high-quality program. If that’s not enough to convince you of the value preschool can provide, consider the real-life wisdom we gathered—and learn whether or not your child is ready.

Approaching 43 years at Miss Barbara’s, Christine said, “The sooner a child is exposed to early childhood development activities, the better. The center teaches children ages 2 through 5, and the learning experiences in each class build upon one another.”

Lydia Mansour, Director of Pre-K and Kindergarten at Santa Catalina’s Lower and Middle School, has more than 30 years of experience in early childhood education in public and private school settings.

“The beginning is everything,” she emphasized. “Introducing your child to school in a developmentally appropriate manner at a preschool or Pre-K that believes in educating the whole child and whose teachers build and nurture trust with these youngest learners goes a long way to help a child develop a love for school and learning.”

Markers for Readiness

Sending your precious toddler off to school can be scary—especially if you’re not confident they can handle being away from you for part of a day and can communicate their needs.

To know if they’re ready, Christine said you’ll want to notice whether they want to play with other children, participate in hands-on crafts such as painting and Play-Doh, and hear stories and songs. Even more essential is that your child can follow simple instructions, focus on a task, express their emotions, and take care of basic needs such as putting on and taking off shoes and jackets.

“Children who are ready for preschool are likely able to recognize and/or name 6-8 colors, match or sort items by color and shape, join in art and music activities, understand concepts such as: in, out, under, on, off, front and back, and know their basic body parts such as head, shoulder, knee, and foot,” added Lydia.

“Most quality preschool programs and Pre-K classrooms utilize a developmental readiness screening that can help parents decide whether or not their child is ready. Schools that do this usually include a tour for parents and children, and their administrators work closely with parents to help them figure out what, if anything, they can do to help with their child’s readiness.”

Preparing Your Child for School

Both preschool educators agree that the COVID-19 pandemic pushed back the ability of some young children to hit certain developmental milestones when they might have otherwise because parents stepped in with more support. There are many ways to help your child inch toward independence, though.

Lydia suggests a fun way to get your child excited about doing things independently is to make a game of it. “For example, you can race each other to see who can get their shoes on first! The more confidence a child has in their abilities to function without a parent’s help, the more successful the transition to preschool or Pre-K will be.”

Giving your child more opportunities to interact with peers through group play and gym classes, and going on outings such as museum visits, can also support your child in being preschool-ready, said Christine.

Easing First-Day Jitters

As excited as your child might be about being a “big kid” by going to school, they will likely feel some unease—especially as the first day nears. To wipe away worries, Christine suggests taking a tour of the centers you’re interested in together and visiting at different times so your child can see a variety of activities and routines and observe transitions.

“Storybooks about school and school routines, and that show school as a fun place to experience learning ‘adventures’ are also very helpful for a child that appears apprehensive or unsure about starting school,” said Lydia.

Other tips for easing the first-day jitters: Ask your child how they’re feeling about starting school. See if you can arrange for your child to meet their teachers beforehand. During that visit, your child might be allowed to walk around and explain the various activities they will get to do. Together, these activities can help replace anxiety with positive anticipation.

“It’s perfectly normal for your child to be feeling a mix of emotions. Let them know it’s okay to feel that way and reassure them that it will be okay,” Lydia advised. “Also, practicing the new ‘school-day’ morning routine with your child and driving past ‘their’ school as often as possible will help a child feel a strong sense of connection with the school.”

One last word of advice: Before your child becomes a toddler, if you’ve heard about a good school, get on the wait list!


WENDY J. ROSENTHAL is a writer, credentialed educator and tutor, and solopreneur of a boutique marketing company. She is certified in Youth Mental Health First Aid and is the parent of two teen boys. She and her children reside in Salinas with their rescue pup Sherman.

Filed Under: Education News Tagged With: education, preschool

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