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Celebrating An American Hero

By Monterey Bay Parent Editors | October 24, 2019

Veteran’s day is November 11. The month of November is a time to reflect on the courage and sacrifices our Veterans have made on behalf of all Americans.

I want to honor my grandfather, Corporal Fred B. McGee, a Korean War veteran, and Silver Star and Purple Heart recipient, by sharing his story.

My grandfather was born on Memorial Day in 1930, one of five children born to Spanish and Perrie McGee. Spanish was the inventor of the tire chain in 1928. He later sold the patent to the U.S. Army.

Fred McGee was an excellent baseball & football player in high school. After graduation, he began working in the steel mill before the Army drafted him.

In the summer of 1951, McGee completed basic training with an all-black regiment, and before his 22nd birthday was fighting in the Korean War. Once his training was complete, he was sent to Yokohama, Japan, before arriving in Korea in 1952.


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Corporal McGee served in the first desegregated unit and was put on a truck destined for Heartbreak Ridge, the front lines of this war. The conditions included temperatures well below freezing and going days without food or relief.

“Our group lost about 50 men, but we killed a lot more North Koreans,” he said while seated comfortably in his home with his wife, Cornell. “You are like everyone else; you are scared. The battlefield front line is the coldest place ever. It is snow-covered, and you can easily get frost-bitten.”

While on patrol as a light machine gunner, his troops came under fire. Fighting from an exposed position, McGee’s squad leader was wounded, his machine gunner was killed, and his second in command was frozen from shock. McGee was forced to assume command and fire on enemy positions.

“The Koreans were blowing horns and whistles to confuse us. While we were heading up a hill, our group ran into an enemy outpost, and I had three machine guns firing at me. Our corporal was hit in the back, and I got hit in the leg and on the side of the head,” the decorated veteran explained. After receiving the order for his platoon to withdraw, McGee volunteered to stay behind to help evacuate the wounded and dead, despite his injuries. McGee’s Silver Star was the result of his brave, selfless, and heroic actions on June 16, 1952.

McGee’s efforts were later memorialized in a 1953 comic book, “Heroic Comics.” The comic book was dedicated to telling the stories of heroic soldiers. Unfortunately, McGee was saddened to see himself, an African-American soldier, depicted as a white man in the book.

Although McGee was informed by his Captain that he was submitting his name for the Medal of Honor, the highest military award for bravery given to an individual in the United States, his commander’s passed away before the nomination could be made. Without first-hand testimony, the award hasn’t been made.

In addition to the Silver Star, he won two Purple Hearts, the United Nations Service Medal, the Combat Infantry Badge, and the Korean Service Medal with Bronze Service Star. He is a recipient of the 2019 Jefferson County, Ohio Service Commission Veteran of the Year award, was honored by the State Senate and is a recipient of the Korean Ambassadors Peace Medal. McGee is also an inductee to the Ohio Military Hall of Fame, and a member of the Sons of the American Revolution.

Corporal Fred McGee went on to marry my grandmother, Cornell McGee. They have been married for 64 years and have raised five children, 11 grandchildren, and 11 great-grandchildren.

After being discharged from the Army, McGee returned to the Ohio Valley, where he played semi-pro baseball and retired from Wheeling-Pittsburgh Steel Mill after 40 years.

At 89 years young, he continues to be our hero and inspiration.  My family strives to carry on his legacy of service. Two of Fred McGee’s great-grandchildren attend Santa Catalina and Stevenson Upper School, and my husband, an active duty Marine, is attending the Naval Post Graduate School.

My grandfather’s story is one of perseverance and bravery. I’ve learned a lot from him, mainly to never give up and to always be a leader. In the darkest and most difficult times, he was able to lead and keep fighting.


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Filed Under: Military Tagged With: military, Military Mom, veteran, Veterans Day

Honor Memorial Day

By Monterey Bay Parent Editors | April 25, 2019

Filed Under: Holidays Tagged With: Memorial Day, military, Monterey military, news you need

What Our “Military Mom” Will Miss

By Monterey Bay Parent Editors | April 25, 2019

We’re sad to say goodbye to Allison and Kyle Chance and their beautiful family. Allison and Kyle have made themselves an important part of the Monterey community in their time here and will be missed.

Best of luck, Allison and Kyle!


Spring is upon us, and the saying, “April Showers turn to May Flowers” is undoubtedly true here on the Peninsula. We had our fair share of rain earlier in the year, so I know we are all rejoicing over the beautiful weather so we can get our kids back outside! 

It has been such a pleasure to write the Military Mom column during our time in Monterey, but like anything, all good things must come to an end. The military is moving my family to Florida this summer as my husband completes his Master’s Program at the Naval Postgraduate School.  I have loved meeting so many wonderful moms and families through the magazine, and a big thank you to Andrea Breznay for creating this publication and allowing me to share with all of you. 

As we graduate, many new military families will be arriving and starting their tour in Monterey. If you are a new military family reading this, I encourage you to get connected with other moms by joining the Monterey Bay Parent Magazine Facebook Group. The magazine provides a calendar of local activities and events that are so wonderful when you are learning the new ropes of a new area. 

For my last Military Mom article, I am going to highlight some of my Monterey favorites! 

  • My Museum. We have loved our membership, and at $100 for the year, it is a fantastic deal. We love going after I pick my daughter up from school from 4-closing. If you want to check it out at a reduced rate, the 1st Tuesday of the month is only $2 per person. 
  • Lover’s Point. We’ve lived in Hawaii and Florida, so we are used to warm weather, sun and the beach. Lover’s Point is a fantastic place to hang out on a sunny and warm day. The best part? It’s free! Bring your sand toys and a picnic and enjoy the beauty of our area! 
  • Doe Park Super Park. Located in Fort Ord-Doe Park military community, this park is my daughter’s favorite and usually less crowded than other area parks! 
  • Folktale Winery. If you need some sun in your life, Folktale is the place to go. Located in Carmel Valley, it is the perfect place to spend the day with your entire family (pets included). Don’t forget to ask for the military discount. I would also highly recommend joining their wine club if you plan to visit often. It will pay for itself very quickly! 
  • The Farm in Salinas. We loved visiting the Farm for their events, story time and their yummy produce and food. From hayrides to the petting zone to cutting our fresh flowers, The Farm has so much to offer!  
  • Monterey Bay Recreational Trail. Walking or running the Rec Trail never gets old. You never know what you will see in terms of wildlife, and there are plenty of excellent stops for a quick bite or beverage. If you are feeling adventurous, I highly suggest renting a surrey bike. We like to rent these when we have visitors in from out of town, and the kids love it! Adventures by the Sea rents these bikes and they offer a military discount. 
  • Big Sur River Inn. If you are up for a journey down the beautiful coast, I highly suggest stopping at the Big Sur River Inn to play in the river. Some of my fondest memories include putting on rain boots and stomping around in the river with my daughter. They have a restaurant and snack shop on site and plenty of Adirondack chairs to rest and relax in. 


Whether you are here in Monterey for six months or 5 years, I hope you enjoy the beautiful Central Coast as much as my family did. I highly recommend making a bucket list so you can be sure to visit all of the beautiful places in the area. 

Filed Under: Military Tagged With: events for Monterey military families, military, Military Mom, news you need

Celebrating the Month of the Military Child

By Monterey Bay Parent Editors | March 26, 2019

April is an important month for our military families because it is the “Month of the Military Child.” As military spouses, many of us chose to “marry into” the military life, whereas our children were simply born into it. They are strong, brave, courageous, flexible, resilient, and truly the “little heroes” of our country. There are approximately 2 million military children, ranging in ages from newborn to 18 years old and I am so happy that we can make the month of April all about them! 

As April closes out, I wish you a wonderful Easter and spring break (for some schools) with your family. Remember to celebrate your military children all month and help them feel appreciated for all the sacrifices that they make so their parents can serve. 


Allison Chance is a military spouse and mom to Charlotte, 5, and Hux, 1. 

Filed Under: Military Tagged With: military, Military Mom

Navigating a Military Move During the Holidays

By Monterey Bay Parent Editors | November 18, 2018

The holidays and end of 2018 are upon us and many of us military families will be packing up our things and moving onto our next duty station. Moving is one of the hardest things about military life, especially when it falls during the holidays. Many families will celebrate in hotels or temporary lodging and away from friends or family members.

I polled some fellow military moms who have moved during the holiday season and here are some of their tips: 

  • Pack your crock pot or instant pot so that you can make home-cooked meals. Your family, waistline, and budget will appreciate it. 
  • Purchase a mini tree and ornaments to decorate your hotel or temporary lodging. Target and the Dollar Tree are great places to shop for these items! 
  • Develop family traditions. Maybe you get Chinese takeout on Christmas Eve, and that becomes your family tradition every year, or you have a Christmas picnic each year instead of a big dinner with the fancy china and linen napkins. 
  •  If you are spending the holidays in your new home,  use this time to explore! Ask a local where the best display of Christmas lights are, visit a new museum or zoo or see a movie (most movie theaters are open on Christmas Day). 
  • Be sure to bring your stockings along and pack some command strips to hang them in your hotel with no fuss!  


This month is filled with lots of great events. One of my favorite local things here in the area is driving down Candy Cane Lane and viewing the incredible light display. This year, Morse Drive in Pacific Grove will be open from December 3-31. There is no charge to drive through Candy Cane Lane and if you haven’t visited, you must! The neighbors do an amazing job going all out for the holidays. My daughter asked to go back multiple times in December. So grab your hot chocolate and take a stroll down Candy Cane Lane! 

Another fantastic event to take note of is The Nutcracker; A Monterey Peninsula Tradition with Monterey County Pops! Orchestra LIVE! Presented by Dance Kids. Performances will take place on Friday, December 7 to Sunday, December 8. Visit www.suncenter.org for tickets. I am pleased to share that they do offer a discounted ticket for the military.  

If your little one needs an abbreviated Nutcracker performance, consider My Very First Nutcracker at the Hammer Theatre Center in San Jose. This one-hour performance is perfect for children and toddler of all ages and tickets start at just $12.50 per person. Tickets can be purchased online at www.hammertheatre.com/events/. Children under two are admitted to the theater through a $10 lap pass that can be purchased at the box office. The box office opens 90 minutes before each show and performances are on December 15, 16, 22, 23 and 24. 

If you would like to stay active during the holidays, the Jingle Bell 5K is the perfect opportunity! The race will take place in Pacific Grove at Lover’s Point Park and will benefit the Arthritis Foundation. You can register online at www.events.arthritis.org. Registration starts at $25, and there is a kid’s run option for just $20. 

Each year, my family and I try to share the holiday spirit with those who are less fortunate. Whether you volunteer at a shelter, serve a meal to those who are less fortunate or adopt a child for Christmas, giving back is so rewarding for the entire family and is a great yearly tradition to start. Here in Monterey, Al & Friends serves breakfast every Sunday morning on Del Monte Beach to anyone needing a meal. This is a great way to include your children in giving back and also to teach a lesson of gratitude. Visit www.alandfriends.org for more information and to learn how to volunteer. 

Another fun way to give back is through The Giving Sack. The Giving Sack Storybook and Sack is a great holiday tradition where you will read a book with your children, and then they will fill their sack (a large red bag) with toys to donate. You can learn more and order the book and sack at www.thegivingsack.com. 

I hope December is filled with lots of love and cheer for your family and best of luck to those military families who will be transitioning to their next duty station. I am looking forward to 2019!


Allison Chance is a military spouse and mom to Charlotte, 4, and Hux, 6 months. She is a Realtor and has been lucky to call Florida, Hawaii, and now California home during her family’s military adventure.

Filed Under: Christmas & Hannukah, Military Tagged With: events for Monterey military families, holiday, military, Military Mom, Monterey military, moving

Monterey Mother’s Day: Military Style!

By Monterey Bay Parent Editors | April 26, 2018

Nothing compares to the love between a parent and child, something we get to celebrate every summer during Mother’s Day and Father’s Day. For military parents, celebrating these holidays with their children is extra special, since they know that in future years deployments or training may keep them apart during these special days.

Our military community in Monterey knows this and wants to help military parents make memories with their kids during this season. Join the Presidio of Monterey for A Knight to Remember Mother/Son Dance on May 12th at the General Stilwell Ballroom in the Fort Ord Housing complex. The Naval Postgraduate School is hosting a Daddy/Daughter Dance on May 18th in the Barbara McNitt Ballroom at the NPS Campus. 

Formal attire is recommended for both events and is the perfect opportunity to dress up in your finest to show the child in your life a great time. For a really fun touch, pick up a corsage or boutonniere. Pick your date up and open the car door for them. At the end of a magical night, make sure to walk them to the door. 

Some military moms and dads in our community are away from their families during Mother’s Day or Father’s Day, while others are parenting alone while their spouse is away for deployment or training. Whether you are missing time with your kids or needing a break from all the parenting responsibilities, these holidays can still be a fun and memorable time.

A brunch out with friends is the perfect way to celebrate while your spouse is away. You can also take yourself out on a date, to the spa or out for a cup of coffee. Mother’s Day is the perfect time to indulge in some relaxing mom time. Mother’s Day and Father’s Day can be challenging for deployed parents. Photos, handmade gifts, and letters from home can help make that separation a little bit easier. To all the deployed moms and dads—we see you and are proud of you.

For tickets to the Mother/Son Dance, stop by Army Community and Youth Services at the Stilwell Center, the Porter Youth Center, or the POM Chapel. For tickets to the Daddy/Daughter Dance, drop by the Tickets & Travel Office on the first floor of the historic Hotel Del Monte.

Happy Mother’s Day from this military mama!

Katie Begley is a Navy veteran and military spouse. Katie is an advertising sales executive for Monterey Bay Parent Magazine. She is the mother of a one-year-old and five-month-old sons.

Filed Under: Military Tagged With: Father's Day, military, Military Mom, Mother's Day

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