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Monterey Bay Parent » Military Mom

Celebrating An American Hero

By Monterey Bay Parent Editors | October 24, 2019

Veteran’s day is November 11. The month of November is a time to reflect on the courage and sacrifices our Veterans have made on behalf of all Americans.

I want to honor my grandfather, Corporal Fred B. McGee, a Korean War veteran, and Silver Star and Purple Heart recipient, by sharing his story.

My grandfather was born on Memorial Day in 1930, one of five children born to Spanish and Perrie McGee. Spanish was the inventor of the tire chain in 1928. He later sold the patent to the U.S. Army.

Fred McGee was an excellent baseball & football player in high school. After graduation, he began working in the steel mill before the Army drafted him.

In the summer of 1951, McGee completed basic training with an all-black regiment, and before his 22nd birthday was fighting in the Korean War. Once his training was complete, he was sent to Yokohama, Japan, before arriving in Korea in 1952.


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Corporal McGee served in the first desegregated unit and was put on a truck destined for Heartbreak Ridge, the front lines of this war. The conditions included temperatures well below freezing and going days without food or relief.

“Our group lost about 50 men, but we killed a lot more North Koreans,” he said while seated comfortably in his home with his wife, Cornell. “You are like everyone else; you are scared. The battlefield front line is the coldest place ever. It is snow-covered, and you can easily get frost-bitten.”

While on patrol as a light machine gunner, his troops came under fire. Fighting from an exposed position, McGee’s squad leader was wounded, his machine gunner was killed, and his second in command was frozen from shock. McGee was forced to assume command and fire on enemy positions.

“The Koreans were blowing horns and whistles to confuse us. While we were heading up a hill, our group ran into an enemy outpost, and I had three machine guns firing at me. Our corporal was hit in the back, and I got hit in the leg and on the side of the head,” the decorated veteran explained. After receiving the order for his platoon to withdraw, McGee volunteered to stay behind to help evacuate the wounded and dead, despite his injuries. McGee’s Silver Star was the result of his brave, selfless, and heroic actions on June 16, 1952.

McGee’s efforts were later memorialized in a 1953 comic book, “Heroic Comics.” The comic book was dedicated to telling the stories of heroic soldiers. Unfortunately, McGee was saddened to see himself, an African-American soldier, depicted as a white man in the book.

Although McGee was informed by his Captain that he was submitting his name for the Medal of Honor, the highest military award for bravery given to an individual in the United States, his commander’s passed away before the nomination could be made. Without first-hand testimony, the award hasn’t been made.

In addition to the Silver Star, he won two Purple Hearts, the United Nations Service Medal, the Combat Infantry Badge, and the Korean Service Medal with Bronze Service Star. He is a recipient of the 2019 Jefferson County, Ohio Service Commission Veteran of the Year award, was honored by the State Senate and is a recipient of the Korean Ambassadors Peace Medal. McGee is also an inductee to the Ohio Military Hall of Fame, and a member of the Sons of the American Revolution.

Corporal Fred McGee went on to marry my grandmother, Cornell McGee. They have been married for 64 years and have raised five children, 11 grandchildren, and 11 great-grandchildren.

After being discharged from the Army, McGee returned to the Ohio Valley, where he played semi-pro baseball and retired from Wheeling-Pittsburgh Steel Mill after 40 years.

At 89 years young, he continues to be our hero and inspiration.  My family strives to carry on his legacy of service. Two of Fred McGee’s great-grandchildren attend Santa Catalina and Stevenson Upper School, and my husband, an active duty Marine, is attending the Naval Post Graduate School.

My grandfather’s story is one of perseverance and bravery. I’ve learned a lot from him, mainly to never give up and to always be a leader. In the darkest and most difficult times, he was able to lead and keep fighting.


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Filed Under: Military Tagged With: military, Military Mom, veteran, Veterans Day

What Our “Military Mom” Will Miss

By Monterey Bay Parent Editors | April 25, 2019

We’re sad to say goodbye to Allison and Kyle Chance and their beautiful family. Allison and Kyle have made themselves an important part of the Monterey community in their time here and will be missed.

Best of luck, Allison and Kyle!


Spring is upon us, and the saying, “April Showers turn to May Flowers” is undoubtedly true here on the Peninsula. We had our fair share of rain earlier in the year, so I know we are all rejoicing over the beautiful weather so we can get our kids back outside! 

It has been such a pleasure to write the Military Mom column during our time in Monterey, but like anything, all good things must come to an end. The military is moving my family to Florida this summer as my husband completes his Master’s Program at the Naval Postgraduate School.  I have loved meeting so many wonderful moms and families through the magazine, and a big thank you to Andrea Breznay for creating this publication and allowing me to share with all of you. 

As we graduate, many new military families will be arriving and starting their tour in Monterey. If you are a new military family reading this, I encourage you to get connected with other moms by joining the Monterey Bay Parent Magazine Facebook Group. The magazine provides a calendar of local activities and events that are so wonderful when you are learning the new ropes of a new area. 

For my last Military Mom article, I am going to highlight some of my Monterey favorites! 

  • My Museum. We have loved our membership, and at $100 for the year, it is a fantastic deal. We love going after I pick my daughter up from school from 4-closing. If you want to check it out at a reduced rate, the 1st Tuesday of the month is only $2 per person. 
  • Lover’s Point. We’ve lived in Hawaii and Florida, so we are used to warm weather, sun and the beach. Lover’s Point is a fantastic place to hang out on a sunny and warm day. The best part? It’s free! Bring your sand toys and a picnic and enjoy the beauty of our area! 
  • Doe Park Super Park. Located in Fort Ord-Doe Park military community, this park is my daughter’s favorite and usually less crowded than other area parks! 
  • Folktale Winery. If you need some sun in your life, Folktale is the place to go. Located in Carmel Valley, it is the perfect place to spend the day with your entire family (pets included). Don’t forget to ask for the military discount. I would also highly recommend joining their wine club if you plan to visit often. It will pay for itself very quickly! 
  • The Farm in Salinas. We loved visiting the Farm for their events, story time and their yummy produce and food. From hayrides to the petting zone to cutting our fresh flowers, The Farm has so much to offer!  
  • Monterey Bay Recreational Trail. Walking or running the Rec Trail never gets old. You never know what you will see in terms of wildlife, and there are plenty of excellent stops for a quick bite or beverage. If you are feeling adventurous, I highly suggest renting a surrey bike. We like to rent these when we have visitors in from out of town, and the kids love it! Adventures by the Sea rents these bikes and they offer a military discount. 
  • Big Sur River Inn. If you are up for a journey down the beautiful coast, I highly suggest stopping at the Big Sur River Inn to play in the river. Some of my fondest memories include putting on rain boots and stomping around in the river with my daughter. They have a restaurant and snack shop on site and plenty of Adirondack chairs to rest and relax in. 


Whether you are here in Monterey for six months or 5 years, I hope you enjoy the beautiful Central Coast as much as my family did. I highly recommend making a bucket list so you can be sure to visit all of the beautiful places in the area. 

Filed Under: Military Tagged With: events for Monterey military families, military, Military Mom, news you need

Celebrating the Month of the Military Child

By Monterey Bay Parent Editors | March 26, 2019

April is an important month for our military families because it is the “Month of the Military Child.” As military spouses, many of us chose to “marry into” the military life, whereas our children were simply born into it. They are strong, brave, courageous, flexible, resilient, and truly the “little heroes” of our country. There are approximately 2 million military children, ranging in ages from newborn to 18 years old and I am so happy that we can make the month of April all about them! 

As April closes out, I wish you a wonderful Easter and spring break (for some schools) with your family. Remember to celebrate your military children all month and help them feel appreciated for all the sacrifices that they make so their parents can serve. 


Allison Chance is a military spouse and mom to Charlotte, 5, and Hux, 1. 

Filed Under: Military Tagged With: military, Military Mom

Navigating a Military Move During the Holidays

By Monterey Bay Parent Editors | November 18, 2018

The holidays and end of 2018 are upon us and many of us military families will be packing up our things and moving onto our next duty station. Moving is one of the hardest things about military life, especially when it falls during the holidays. Many families will celebrate in hotels or temporary lodging and away from friends or family members.

I polled some fellow military moms who have moved during the holiday season and here are some of their tips: 

  • Pack your crock pot or instant pot so that you can make home-cooked meals. Your family, waistline, and budget will appreciate it. 
  • Purchase a mini tree and ornaments to decorate your hotel or temporary lodging. Target and the Dollar Tree are great places to shop for these items! 
  • Develop family traditions. Maybe you get Chinese takeout on Christmas Eve, and that becomes your family tradition every year, or you have a Christmas picnic each year instead of a big dinner with the fancy china and linen napkins. 
  •  If you are spending the holidays in your new home,  use this time to explore! Ask a local where the best display of Christmas lights are, visit a new museum or zoo or see a movie (most movie theaters are open on Christmas Day). 
  • Be sure to bring your stockings along and pack some command strips to hang them in your hotel with no fuss!  


This month is filled with lots of great events. One of my favorite local things here in the area is driving down Candy Cane Lane and viewing the incredible light display. This year, Morse Drive in Pacific Grove will be open from December 3-31. There is no charge to drive through Candy Cane Lane and if you haven’t visited, you must! The neighbors do an amazing job going all out for the holidays. My daughter asked to go back multiple times in December. So grab your hot chocolate and take a stroll down Candy Cane Lane! 

Another fantastic event to take note of is The Nutcracker; A Monterey Peninsula Tradition with Monterey County Pops! Orchestra LIVE! Presented by Dance Kids. Performances will take place on Friday, December 7 to Sunday, December 8. Visit www.suncenter.org for tickets. I am pleased to share that they do offer a discounted ticket for the military.  

If your little one needs an abbreviated Nutcracker performance, consider My Very First Nutcracker at the Hammer Theatre Center in San Jose. This one-hour performance is perfect for children and toddler of all ages and tickets start at just $12.50 per person. Tickets can be purchased online at www.hammertheatre.com/events/. Children under two are admitted to the theater through a $10 lap pass that can be purchased at the box office. The box office opens 90 minutes before each show and performances are on December 15, 16, 22, 23 and 24. 

If you would like to stay active during the holidays, the Jingle Bell 5K is the perfect opportunity! The race will take place in Pacific Grove at Lover’s Point Park and will benefit the Arthritis Foundation. You can register online at www.events.arthritis.org. Registration starts at $25, and there is a kid’s run option for just $20. 

Each year, my family and I try to share the holiday spirit with those who are less fortunate. Whether you volunteer at a shelter, serve a meal to those who are less fortunate or adopt a child for Christmas, giving back is so rewarding for the entire family and is a great yearly tradition to start. Here in Monterey, Al & Friends serves breakfast every Sunday morning on Del Monte Beach to anyone needing a meal. This is a great way to include your children in giving back and also to teach a lesson of gratitude. Visit www.alandfriends.org for more information and to learn how to volunteer. 

Another fun way to give back is through The Giving Sack. The Giving Sack Storybook and Sack is a great holiday tradition where you will read a book with your children, and then they will fill their sack (a large red bag) with toys to donate. You can learn more and order the book and sack at www.thegivingsack.com. 

I hope December is filled with lots of love and cheer for your family and best of luck to those military families who will be transitioning to their next duty station. I am looking forward to 2019!


Allison Chance is a military spouse and mom to Charlotte, 4, and Hux, 6 months. She is a Realtor and has been lucky to call Florida, Hawaii, and now California home during her family’s military adventure.

Filed Under: Christmas & Hannukah, Military Tagged With: events for Monterey military families, holiday, military, Military Mom, Monterey military, moving

Arts Resources For Your Monterey Military Family

By Monterey Bay Parent Editors | August 27, 2018

The long, lazy days of summer are over, and school is officially back in session. I hope you all are settling back into a routine. I’m excited to be taking over the Military Mom Column for Monterey Bay Parent. My name is Allison Chance, and I am a Navy wife and mom to two children. Our military adventure has taken us to Florida, Hawaii, and CA thus far. We have been in Monterey for a little over a year now, while my husband studies at Naval Postgraduate School. We have enjoyed exploring the area and have visited several spots on the west coast. I look forward to sharing upcoming events and relevant topics to military life in Monterey. 

With our September issue featuring the Arts, I wanted to highlight some upcoming local events that are perfect for your family. One of my favorite experiences in the area has been attending a play at the Pacific Repertory Theatre’s Outdoor Forest Theater. This month, The Little Mermaid will take the stage through September 23. Tickets are available online or at their box office in Carmel at Monte Verde St. between 8th & 9th Aves. They also offer a discounted rate for the military. Pack a picnic and enjoy a beautiful evening under the stars. Arrive early to grab your seat as the theater features open seating. They also have snacks and beverages for sale on-site. 

Also offering discounted rates for the military is Ariel Theatrical, located in Salinas. Their next show debuts in October and will be School House Rock Live. Ariel Theatrical also offers terrific summer programs and is dedicated to serving the community and has been doing so for over 30 years. Rounding out their 2018 season will be the Three Piggy Opera and the Best Christmas Pageant Ever.

Looking to get into dance? NSA Monterey is hosting ballroom dancing lessons every Thursday from September 6-27 at 5 pm. The classes are free and located in the Barbara McNitt Ballroom and El Prado Dining Room located in the Historic Del Monte Hotel. A dance partner is not required to attend. For more information, visit NSA Monterey Community Recreation on Facebook. 

Is your little one looking to dance, too? La Mesa Tech Connection offers ballet on a monthly basis for just $50 per month. This is perfect for the family who just arrived and missed other dance studio registrations or for families who want to try dance out. Classes are on Tuesdays. 3-4-year-old’s at 2:30-3: 15 pm, 5-6-year-old’s from 3:15-4: 00 pm and seven years old and up are from 4:00-4: 45 pm. Take advantage of this opportunity for your tiny dancer to explore the art of dance. My daughter has done several ballet classes and has enjoyed them. 

Another fun event to mark your calendar for is the 3K Color Run hosted by Navy Fitness Monterey on Saturday, September 15. Registration starts at 12:30 pm at the La Mesa Tech Connection and the run will kick off at 2:00 pm. The run is FREE and includes a t-shirt and sunglasses. This is fun for the whole family and strollers are welcome. My family attended last year, and we had a blast. 

If you are looking for something fun to do over the Labor Day Weekend, don’t forget about the Monterey County Fair, which will run until Monday, September 3. 

Be sure to stay up to date with local happenings for military families with the Peacock Press, which is NSA Monterey’s quarterly magazine and is available online at monterey.navylifesw.com. Fleet and Family Support Center Monterey also publishes a monthly calendar with seminars, playdates, and special events. Be sure to like them on Facebook to stay up to date. 


Allison Chance is a military spouse and mom to Charlotte, 4, and Hux, 4 months. She is a Realtor and has been lucky to call Florida, Hawaii, and now CA home during her family’s military adventure.

Filed Under: Military Tagged With: Military Mom, news you need

Military Mom: Does Your Child Need Specialized Medical Support?

By Monterey Bay Parent Editors | May 31, 2018

For military families new to Monterey, a specialized care provider can help identify services available in the community. But the path to finding the right provider can be daunting. There are excellent resources offered by the military and the Monterey community to help parents navigate specialized care.

Think your child may need extra support? The best place to start is your pediatrician’s office. They have experience navigating the referral process and getting the necessary paperwork started. Pediatricians often screen for common concerns at routine visits but don’t hesitate to ask questions if you think that something needs extra attention. 

Once a referral is approved, a specialist can help guide care based on your child’s needs. Evaluation is helpful to both determine where each child needs support as well as where they excel. A care plan can include opportunities in the natural environment to build skills as well as more intense interventions.

The Fleet and Family Support Center and Army Community Services are both excellent resources for connecting military families with specialized providers in our community. Experts at the Exceptional Family Member Program can also provide insight. Some providers even come to playgroups to meet and educate families.

Speech therapy is one of the first specialized care opportunities available, often around 18 months or 2 years. But it can be beneficial even earlier. Alongside lactation consultants, speech therapists can provide insight during feeding. “The cues your child is providing during feeding are the first form of communication and the beginning of language development,” says Jenn D’Attilio at Central Coast Language and Learning.

Occupational therapy and physical therapy are other services that can help with mobility and developmental needs. Natalie Sanders, Director of Therasens Occupational Therapy, works with many military families as part of their care team. “Early intervention is key,” she says, recommending that parents take advantage of the numerous resources available in the Monterey area. Keep in mind that there may be resources available here that weren’t at your last duty station. This is where working with a specialist can help identify what services are right for you.

Following through on a specialized care plan can be difficult during military moves. Telemedicine allows providers and patients to stay connected using video call technology. Jenn and her team use telemedicine to ensure continuity of care for patients and to allow military spouses on their team to continue providing care. As you plan for a move, ask your provider if telemedicine is an option.

TRICARE, the military insurance network, also offers case management services free of charge for those needing continuous, high-needs care. Natalie recommends working with a case manager if your child needs more intense interventions to make sure that you are set up at your new duty station. Contact TRICARE West at 1-844-866-WEST to see if working with a case manager may be right for your situation.

Katie Begley is a Navy veteran and military spouse. Katie is an advertising sales executive for Monterey Bay Parent Magazine. She is the mother of 19 month-old and six-month-old sons

Filed Under: Military Tagged With: Fleet and Family, Inclusive, Military Mom, news you need, therapy

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